To lie accurately

Aha! now thats nother thing i need to learn is to ...
lie accurately
i mean i know everybody lies and everybody hurts (may be becoz of lies)
yeah either they want to hear a lie or they dont want to (but the bottomline is its associated with lie)
i dont think to say the truth is that important
rather it is more important to tell the truth most appropriately -such that truth doesnt hurt
on the same line truth and lie are two sides of the same coin -
in short to say the truth appropriately can be translated as to lie accurately :-) yaa and not hurt anything or anyone... and still be truthful - but how can one do that?
morally -how can one lie accurately
where accuracy seems to be the key -- key to truth and key to understanding the misunderstanding :-))

indulgence in obsessions

Why are obsessions so much fun to live ?
yeah obsessions are fun , its like indulgence ..
was wondering i dont have too much in life , not too much art/talent and am therefore used to (may be still do) have this career obsession - yeah!
becoz i simply dont have anything better to do ;-P
and i was imagining a lukha life say suppose on an island -doing simple things earning a living -it wud make me feel so unobsessed so purposeless -so uncomfortable and i am therefore attached to indulging into thoughts of career and direction and all the coolness associated wid it.
wont deny its boring , very boring cuz i hardly have my gut /instinct feel on it
my obession with logic yeah kind of takes the upperhand here//..
yeah so ive discovered two of my indulgences already and yeah im addicted to them as i seem to indulge pretty much to avoid feeling jobless ;-) hehee..

there is also a blog associated with career- another buddy's obsessoin ;-)
http://www.careerintensity.com